Dying to self

“Suppose you have been neglected or unforgiven. You sting with the hurt of the
insult from such an oversight, but your heart is happy because you have been
counted worthy to suffer for Christ. That is what dying to self is all about. When
your wishes are crossed, your advice disregarded, and your opinions ridiculed,
and yet you refuse to let anger rise in your heart or try to defend yourself, you are
practicing dying to self. When you lovingly and patiently stand face to face with
folly and spiritual insensitivity, and endure it as Jesus did, you have died to self.
When you are content with any food, money, clothing, climate, society, solitude,
or interruption by the will of God, you have died to self. When you never care to
refer to yourself in conversation, record your own good works, or desire
commendation from others, you are dying to self. When you can honestly rejoice
with a brother who has prospered and had his needs met, and never feel any envy
though your needs are greater and still unmet, you have practiced dying to self.
When you can receive correction and reproof from one of less stature than
yourself, and admit he’s right with no resentment or rebellion in your heart, you
have died to self. Are you dead yet?” - (Author Unknown)